The Danger of 'Follow Your Passions'
We’re often told to follow our passions. But what if that’s the wrong advice?
I’m passionate about a lot of things, most of which my younger self couldn’t have predicted. From running and playing music to woodworking, brewing beer, and even aquariums, my interests are as varied as they are unexpected. In fact, I often have to cull the list of things I devote time to because there are only 24 hours in a day.
Yet, I don’t follow my passions.
"...I don’t follow my passions."
As a kid, baseball consumed my life. We were a baseball family. I played year-round, devoured games on the radio, and lived for every moment on the field. But, by my teens, I burned out completely.
In the void baseball left, I found the freedom to try something new. That freedom led me to music and running—passions I never would have predicted. But here’s the thing: they didn’t start as passions. They started as simple curiosities, which grew as I invested time and effort into learning and improving. The better I got, the more the passion developed.
"...they didn’t start as passions. They started as simple curiosities, which grew as I invested time and effort into learning and improving."
When I first picked up a guitar, I wasn’t good—far from it. But I loved the challenge of learning something new. Slowly, I improved. The better I got, the more I enjoyed it. The more success I had, the more passionate I became about it. The same thing happened with running—it wasn’t love at first stride, but a curiosity that turned into something greater.
So, the real discovery was that I could find passion in unexpected places as long as I sought opportunities to learn and kept an open mind.
"...the real discovery was that I could find passion in unexpected places..."
In part, this is why I detest the advice to ‘Follow your passions’. It assumes passion is something innate and unchanging. Except that mindset can trap people in a narrow view of their potential. It discourages exploration and can leave you feeling lost if the passion you chase doesn’t work out. Passion isn’t something you find—it’s something you create.
So, I don’t follow my passions - I cultivate them. I look for things I can become passionate about.
"...I don’t follow my passions - I cultivate them."
Why? Because we become passionate about things we’re good at and have some success in. We acquire skills over time, but often limit our opportunities with the familiar. If we’re only exposed to a small number of things, we may never really discover the handful of things we were made for. Because acquired skills can often be applied across a plethora of opportunities, all it takes is the willingness to learn and an openness to something new.
So, what advice do I give…
- Seek and embrace opportunities to try new things
- Constantly learn and discover new things
- Apply yourself to things you can become passionate about
Whether in life or leadership, the most rewarding moments often come from exploring the unknown. By seeking new opportunities and staying open to discovery, we not only grow ourselves but inspire others to do the same. Passion isn’t a roadmap—it’s a result of the journey.
If this resonates with you, and you’re looking for guidance on your journey—whether in life, leadership, or simply exploring what’s next—I’d love to help. Let’s connect and grow together.






